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Baldur's Gate 3: Full Romance Guide

by Blake May 19,2025

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a diverse array of romance options, adding depth and memorable moments to the gameplay. Whether you're seeking a long-term relationship that evolves throughout the campaign or a fleeting encounter with a unique character, the game caters to various preferences. This comprehensive guide will walk you through each romance option in Baldur's Gate 3, ensuring you don't miss out on any potential relationships.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive, with every romanceable character available regardless of your character's sex. The game offers two types of romance: short-term and long-term, each dependent on the character and your goals. Some characters are open to one-night stands, while others require a more extended courtship. Be mindful, as certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance options, especially if you're perceived as "spreading yourself around." Most companion NPCs can be romanced, and engaging in a relationship alters your interactions with them, making it impossible to experience all romance options in one playthrough. Detailed guides for each relationship are linked below.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

For short-term romance, the following non-companion characters are available:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart often becomes a focal point of romance early in the game due to her early introduction and clear interest if you manage to boost her approval. Romancing her adds a rich layer to her narrative, given her central role in the plot.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

Keep Shadowheart in your party to build her approval through acts of kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. Support her against Lae'zel for an early approval boost.
In Act I, once approval is high, look for the "missed a chance to connect" dialogue or wait for the party after rescuing Halsin. Accept her invitation to share a bottle and choose to spend the evening with her. During your walk, avoid dialogue showing disinterest to end the night with a kiss. Affirm your interest in a longer relationship afterward.
In Act II, support her choice between Selune or Shar. If Selune, affirm her new look; if Shar, be patient for the nighttime event.
In Act III, complete her quest and engage in the final nighttime event, choosing positive dialogue options to unlock the special scene.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though exceptions exist. Save before exploring 'open relationships,' especially in Honor Mode.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is open to romance and plays a significant role in the game's plot, making him an intriguing choice.

How to Romance Gale:

Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
Fulfill Gale's requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
Attend his magic lesson in Act I, choosing dialogue that leads to romance. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
Support Gale during the Elminster cutscene before transitioning to Act II, showing care for his fate.
In Act III, keep Gale alive, read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries, and speak to him before resting. Choose "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" for the final romance scene.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale does not tolerate an 'open relationship' and will be unhappy with you romancing others.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and open-mindedness make him a popular choice for romance. His storyline is enriched by a romantic relationship.

How to Romance Astarion:

Increase approval by choosing self-serving options, adding sarcasm, and avoiding excessive altruism.
Allow Astarion to drink your blood to boost approval.
At the party, engage in specific dialogues to ensure a romance scene: "...saving lives is awful?", "...goblins would have thrown a wilder party", "...what's your idea of a little fun?", and "...let's do it. I'll see you later." Let him bite you during the scene.
Show interest in his scars and ask about their Infernal writing.
In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about the scars. Choose supportive dialogue during Astarion's nighttime visit.
In Act III, complete his quest, deciding whether to let him complete the ritual. Support him to unlock the final romantic scenes, including the possibility of becoming a vampire.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner, tolerating other romantic encounters without getting truly angry.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is challenging but rewarding, offering a deep storyline enhanced by a committed relationship.

How to Romance Karlach:

Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early to build approval through kindness, understanding, and justified violence.
Collect Infernal Iron quickly and have Dammon at the Emerald Grove help with her heart. Express disappointment about not being able to touch her, and affirm your interest.
At the party, express your feelings to Karlach, leading to a later conversation about kissing her. The next morning, use water to cool her off temporarily and attempt a kiss.
In Act II, continue to provide Infernal Iron to Dammon at the Last Light Inn.
In Act III, take Karlach on a date to further your relationship.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach is highly sensitive to infidelity. If she gets angry, avoid sarcasm and be sincere to potentially reconcile.
After fixing her heart, you can enter a long-term relationship with unique dialogue options.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his complex storyline, making it a compelling choice for players interested in his character development.

How to Romance Wyll:

Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting Wyll in his quests, including showing him the truth about Karlach.
Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove to unlock the option to spend the night with Wyll during the party.
In Act II, after a Long Rest, find Wyll dancing and choose romantic dialogue options.
In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's early interest in the player offers both short-term and long-term romance options, depending on your actions.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

Increase approval by acting decisively and aggressively, favoring combat over diplomacy.
Once approval is high, mention her different look at you in camp to initiate a one-night stand.
In Act II, accept her duel challenge, and regardless of the outcome, you'll win her heart.
In Act III, the outcome depends on her allegiance to Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus can lead to a public relationship in the ending sequence.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel does not tolerate infidelity and will end the relationship permanently if you cheat after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance is popular among fans, offering a unique experience due to his nature-centric character.

How to Romance Halsin:

Ensure you complete all of Halsin's quests before the end of Act II to avoid being locked out of romance options.
Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion later.
In Act II, help him locate Thaniel to unlock him as a companion.
Keep Halsin in your party, promoting kindness, nature reverence, and fairness to increase approval.
Exhaust his daily dialogue options, focusing on his past relationships.
Once approval is high, Halsin will visit at night. Confirm your relationship status, noting that Shadowheart and Astarion are more open to sharing, while Karlach and Gale are not.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique, often associated with evil playthroughs, offering a different perspective on the game's narrative.

How to Romance Minthara:

Avoid attacking the Goblin Camp and side with Minthara, betraying your party and the Emerald Grove.
After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, 'Embrace the change,' and open your mind to invite her to your camp.
At the goblin party, affirm your allegiance to Minthara and go to bed, where she will join you. Pass the persuasion check to avoid her attacking you.

Recent updates suggest you can knock Minthara out at the Goblin Camp and rescue her from Moonrise Towers in Act II, allowing her to join your party. We will update this guide once we confirm this method.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

Choosing the evil path significantly alters the game's experience, causing tension with other party members due to the destruction of the Emerald Grove.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### How to Romance Mizora:

Keep Wyll in your party and avoid siding with Minthara.
Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
In Act III, find Mizora at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation and discuss Duke Ravengard.
Rest until Mizora visits your camp, then engage in dialogue about wanting something "beyond these planes," choosing "Sounds delicious, what are you suggesting?" and "Smile" to trigger the one-off romance scene.

How to Romance the Guardian:

Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III.
Evolve into Half-Ilithid to boost approval.
Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about his past lover.
During the Emperor's visit after discovering his past, choose to hold their hand.
In the next visit, respond positively to their advances to trigger the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III.
Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar and either complete her quest or pay directly for access to the twins.
Follow the directions to the chambers to initiate the scene, avoiding inviting Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

Reach the House of Hope and cross the 'Mystic Force Curtain' to enter the Boudoir.
Engage with Haarlep, the Incubus, who offers a romantic encounter. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing and find the locked door marked by a green lantern and ivy.
Pick the lock or obtain the key from Mamzell.
Enter the chamber to find Naoise and Jara. After defeating the Mindflayer that Jara turns into, engage in dialogue with Naoise to initiate a brief romantic scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.

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